Imposter syndrome refers to the belief that one’s accomplishments and abilities are undeserved or that they are a fraud, despite evidence of their competence.
An effective metaphor to understand imposter syndrome is the act of scrunching up a piece of paper. Initially, it may provide temporary relief, but it prevents us from seeing the bigger picture and engaging with the world around us. Similarly, imposter syndrome demands our full attention and distracts us from our true capabilities and potential.
In ACT, we encourage holding the metaphorical paper, acknowledging its presence, and recognising that it is just a part of us. Acceptance means creating space for the imposter syndrome thoughts without agreeing with them. We understand that these thoughts are merely thoughts and not factual representations of our abilities or worth.
It’s important to remember that imposter syndrome is a common experience shared by many, even those who have achieved great success. By cultivating self-compassion, accepting the presence of imposter syndrome thoughts, and living in alignment with our values, we can navigate imposter syndrome with resilience and authenticity.